Healed and a Little Broken
Every time my knee hurts, I think the same thing: You should’ve kept up with physical therapy. Healing doesn’t always end when the surgery is over. Maybe that’s true for our hearts too.
Every time my knee hurts, I think the same thing: You should’ve kept up with physical therapy. Healing doesn’t always end when the surgery is over. Maybe that’s true for our hearts too.
Being wrong does not erase everything good in us. But protecting the person everyone believes us to be can keep us from honestly confronting the person we have sometimes been.
Friendship isn’t measured by how often we talk or how perfect we are. It’s built over years of showing up, telling the truth, carrying one another through hard seasons, and choosing each other again and again.
Transformation rarely happens all at once. It happens quietly—in ordinary days, difficult conversations, unexpected losses, and countless small choices to keep becoming the person we were always meant to be.
We often measure love by how it ends. But maybe love isn’t wasted simply because it wasn’t forever. Maybe every act of genuine love changes us, shapes us, and leaves something beautiful behind—even when the story doesn’t end the way we hoped.
Following a heartbreaking murder trial forced me to wrestle with two things that don’t always fit neatly together: empathy and justice. What do we do when both seem equally important?
Sometimes my body recognizes what my mind hasn’t admitted yet. This is an essay about sadness, memory, and the quiet ways our bodies tell the truth before we’re ready to hear it.